Reflections
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July 29, 2010
The butterflies are feasting on the phlox and butterfly weed in my garden. Every morning they return eager to sample the nectar in the bright flowers.
Today I'm anxious to write. I'm nearing the end of this revision of the novel. Aaaaaaaah. A good feeling. But I'm also anxious to work on a new picture book idea that's been haunting my thoughts in sleep and as I wake every morning. That's one of the joys of writing. There's always something new and bright waiting in the wings.
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July 25, 2010
During Camp Schaefer this year, Leah (age 7) and I made a game.
About a year ago I ordered a blank game board and cards from Bare Books. www.barebooks.com When I say that our game board was blank, I mean there were no lines, no pictures, nothing - just a white foldable board. So, when Leah and I first sat down I asked her about the setting for her game. "Will it be in a desert, a swamp, in a city?"
She quickly replied, "A swamp."
We found some wildlife magazines and studied the different creatures that could be found in a wetland. Then, we cut out pictures that we thought were small enough for the board and would lend themselves to interesting events during the game. We cut out about a dozen each. As we were working, Leah looked to me and said, "What is the . . . you know, mission of our game."
"To win?" I offered.
Frustrated, Leah persevered. "You know, what will the winner achieve if he makes it to the end of the game?" Well, I didn't have an answer for that, but she did. "I know," said Leah. "The players will be photographers trying to get some wonderful photos of wildlife in the swamp. Whoever wins will have the most and his pictures will be on display in a gallery or museum or some place like that."
With our new goal, it was easy to design the board. Leah decided to have a structured path that would end in the center. I took the ruler and drew the lines while she started to create "cards" for the game. Some of those read, "You were stung by a hornet. Go back two spaces." or "An alligator is chasing you. Run ahead three spaces." When I finished making the lines and spaces, we created cards together. My favorite was, "You forgot your GPS. Go back to Start."
Leah had been admiring my button collection earlier in the week while she was sewing in the basement. So, I suggested that she select different buttons to be the game pieces. She did.
We added some color to the board. Made up our hazards - you stepped into quicksand with a snake - and bonus spots. Leah decided that if a player landed on our great photos, we needed to put the word "Click" and then that player would draw a card.
Finally, we needed a name. Leah didn't think long - Alligator Chase. We typed up a brief introduction to the game and it was complete.
To test our game, we asked Spencer (age 5) and my husband to play it with us. It worked. Not only did it have a good pace, it was fun! Here's a photo of the kids playing Alligator Chase at their home.
I don't think I've ever helped create a game before, but I sure enjoyed it. So did Leah. Before winter arrives you might want to go to the Bare Books site and order in a gameboard or two. I also purchased two puzzles from them last year. Last November when the kids were staying with us, they each designed and colored a puzzle. Both of those turned out well, too.
Yes, kids do enjoy their electronics, but they also like to sit down with someone they love and create. I hope they decide to make another game next year. I'm ready!
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July 23, 2010
Today's my birthday and I've received so many good wishes from friends and family. Thank you.
In January of this year, I panicked. Oh my word! I was going to turn 60 years old in July. My first thought - IMPOSSIBLE! After I got over the shock and the older image in the mirror, I decided to embrace this birthday as a momentous occasion. My husband took this photo of me outside today. So, picture me smiling as I offer up 60 reasons (in no particular order) why these 60 years have been the BEST! (I've listed only 60, but there are many, many more!)
1. 60 years of discovery
2. a childhood that was safe and nurturing
3. a stay-at-home Mom who sewed and cooked
4. a father who gardened and taught me canasta, cribbage and euchre
5. a home library, school libraries and the bookmobile – 60 years of books and reading
6. summers at my Grandmother’s home in Pittsfield, MA
7. playing croquet on Uncle Emil’s backyard hill
8. riding my bike for hours and miles – still today!
9. planting and harvesting vegetables and flowers
10. canning and freezing, making jams and jellies
11. corn-on-the-cob, butterscotch pie, watermelon and homemade potato salad
12. making gooseberry pies with Aunt Freeda and collecting eggs from the hens
13. swinging from the hayloft and hiding in fields with Chuck, Anne and David
14. holiday celebrations with family and friends
15. reunions and picnics, sleepovers and parties
16. collecting fossils and minerals, rocks and gems
17. attending the prom (one is enough!)
18. college and post grad studies where ideas and innovation were valued
19. working as a Nanny for one summer and making five lifetime friends
20. body-surfing
21. 18 years of teaching grades K, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, & 7
22. students who taught me the most important lessons of life
23. 36.5 years of marriage to Ted – a kind and PATIENT man
24. a mother and father-in-law who are honorable and generous with time and love
25. making mince meat pies (and eating them) with my father-in-law Elmer
26. long walks, drives to Atlanta and talks with my mother-in-law Blanche
27. the birth of Adam, our older son
28. the birth of Wyatt, our younger son
29. reading out loud to our sons
30. helping our sons walk and talk, read and write, find themselves in this world
31. camping trips
32. canoe rides
33. snorkel trips
34. spelunking expeditions
35. watching a loggerhead turtle dig her clutch and lay her eggs on a beach
36. pets – Thor and Mac, Rebel and Gramps, fish and turtles, Dickens, Duke, Calvin & Hobbes
37. 60 years of laughter and love with good friends
38. attending numerous writing conferences and workshops
39. speaking at writing conferences and offering writing workshops
40. meeting and supporting other writers of children’s books
41. writing and writing and writing
42. a long and happy affiliation with the Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators (SCBWI)
43. publishing more than 250 books for children
44. meeting young readers across the country
45. fifteen years of consulting in schools with energetic and dedicated teachers
46. writing side-by-side with students in grades K-8
47. acquiring a literary agent who is compassionate, funny and HARD-WORKING
48. attending graduations and weddings, celebrating beginnings of all kinds
49. welcoming niece Leah and nephew Spencer into our hearts
50. Camp Schaefer with the Ehlerding kids and now the Banko kids
51. moving EVERYTHING, including plants, to Georgia and building a home
52. weekend getaways to Tybee Island, Jekyll Island or Hilton Head
53. writing and receiving hundreds of hand-written letters and thank-you notes
54. building gardens in Indiana and in Georgia
55. mowing grass, pruning trees, trimming hedges
56. sewing garments, tablecloths and mending
57. crocheting afghans, scarves, even a dress in college
58. learning how to make great soups
59. knowing and loving the men our sons grew to be
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July 17, 2010
No writing this week. Instead, my husband and I offered Camp Schaefer again to our niece and nephew.
It was a wonderful week of activities, energy and giggles. The new attraction this year was the hammock. When I was young and traveled to Pittsfield, MA to visit my grandmother and Uncle Louis, I read books for hours in their hammock. What could be better than swaying back and forth under a shady tree and reading one chapter book after another?
So, you can imagine my joy when Leah, age 7, came to me on the second day and asked if she could go outside and read in our hammock. Three beginning chapter books and 100 Duke (our 80 pound dog) kisses later, she returned.
This year the kids had "secret" projects. Every afternoon Spencer ran down to my husband's woodworking shop where they constructed a birdhouse with power tools. Yep, power tools. Even though Spencer never spoiled his surprise by telling us what he was making, he always shared his excitement for the "tool of the day."
Leah wanted to learn to sew. She decided to make a permanent pillow for the . . . hammock. She chose the fabric, sewed the two large squares together on the sewing machine. She turned the pillowcase inside out and pressed it with the iron (another new adventure which she handled beautifully). Then she stuffed her case and hand sewed the opening closed. Her hand stitches were meticulous - small, close and even. I was quite impressed!
The unveiling took place on Friday night. Both children were in awe of what the other had created. (I can't believe that a whole week passed without one of them spilling the beans!)
The rest of the days were spent picking vegetables, cooking, cleaning-up, horseback riding and tubing down a river. One morning we packed up our equipment and went to the National Forest close to our home. Even though it was 92 degrees outside, we weren't hot at all. We stood in a stream (maybe the water was 50 degrees, maybe) and screened for gems. Yep! Each child had a screen mounted on a wooden frame and a trowel. Both kids scooped gravel, sand and small stones on top of their screens, then swished the screen in the water, rinsed and examined. They found mica, quartz, many minerals, and perhaps some fools gold. Two hours passed quickly and we were home for lunch, although our feet were chilly until much later in the day.
On the last night we had the quintessential campfire with hot dogs and smores and two hours later enjoyed one of summer's truly great thunderstorms.
Of course, there was lots of reading all week long. And every night we cuddled on the couch and read 3-5 chapters of a semi-scary novel that Spencer had selected. And then bed. Ahhhhh, bed.
As I said earlier, I didn't write a word this week. I simply enjoyed. For five days I was ten years old again and I saw summer as only a child can. Ted and I try to make Camp Schaefer a great experience for the kids, but in the end, it's a blast for us, too!
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July 8, 2010
I bet some writers have an organized system for revisions.
I do and I don't. I have a major list chapter by chapter, but I also have scraps of paper with a thought here, another there. This draft will emerge after hours of rereading notes, weighing their impact and, of course, rewriting. It's only after I rewrite a good portion that I finally know which revision ideas to include and which to throw away. Nothing too neat about my revising process, but in the end, I hope . . . I hope . .. to see a much improved story.
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